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Why Not All Friends Want the Best for You | Ep 534

The Game with Alex Hormozi · with null · May 9, 2023 · 20 min

Summary

This episode challenges common assumptions about friendship, arguing that not all friends genuinely desire your success; some prefer a version of you that serves their own interests. Alex Hormozi provides actionable insights on identifying unsupportive relationships and strategically cultivating a network that aligns with your ambitious goals, enabling ecommerce operators to optimize their personal support system for professional growth.

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founder & leadership

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friendship dynamics in entrepreneurshipidentifying unsupportive relationshipsstrategic networking for foundersmanaging personal ambition and social circlesself-reliance for entrepreneurssetting boundaries in friendships

Episode description

"People don't actually want the best for you. They want the version of you that best serves them." Today, Alex (@AlexHormozi) shares with us the challenges of pursuing one's dreams and goals while dealing with unsupportive friends. He shares his views on friendship and how it's important to surround oneself with people who believe in one's future self and that not all friends want the best for you.Welcome to The Game w/Alex Hormozi, hosted by entrepreneur, founder, investor, author, public speaker, and content creator Alex Hormozi. On this podcast you’ll hear how to get more customers, make more profit per customer, how to keep them longer, and the many failures and lessons Alex has learned on his path from $100M to $1B in net worth.Timestamps:(1:45) - Friendship is not a binary term(5:41) - People project their idea of friendship onto us(7:51) - 2 perspectives on burning bridges(11:11) - Prioritize treating the other person as human(13:55) - Learn to enjoy being alone and add value to others(17:21) - Friends don't need to pursue greatness, but help you pursue it.Follow Alex Hormozi’s Socials:LinkedIn | Instagram | Facebook | YouTube | Twitter | Acquisition

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Frequently asked about this episode

What does this episode say about founder & leadership?
Evaluate friendships based on whether they genuinely support your future aspirations or prefer your current status quo that serves them.
What does this episode say about founder & leadership?
Be prepared to strategically distance yourself from relationships that hinder your personal and professional growth, understanding that some 'bridge burning' can be necessary.
What does this episode say about founder & leadership?
Cultivate self-reliance and the ability to enjoy solitude, as this strengthens your resolve and reduces dependency on external validation.
What does this episode say about founder & leadership?
Understand that friends don't need to share your pursuit of greatness, but they must actively help and encourage you in that pursuit.
What does this episode say about founder & leadership?
Prioritize treating others with humanity and respect even when setting boundaries or re-evaluating relationships.

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